Friday, 14 August 2015

Back to School!


Hi Lenada's friends!

How did you all spent your summer vacation? Hope everyone had some excellent holiday break!!! 
This week some of the kids in Switzerland have returned to schools, and some got to wait until next week, depending on the Cantons. It must be quite exciting for the kids to be going back to school this time round because they are moving to their next respective classes, and to many, even get to change their schools altogether! 


Well, Natalie and Leila sure had enjoyed their first week of being back at school - they never want to stop talking about it, especially now that Natalie is getting a new class teacher, and Leila, who's no longer a First Grade (1.Klasse) kid, is getting to doing stuff that she had long envied her big sister Natalie then. Each day, there's always something new to talk about :-D

Below are some photos taken during our vacation in France. The girls finally get to visit Disneyland Paris. This trip has been long over-dued but promise is a promise ;-). We later headed south for a bit of a cool down at Saint Tropez Bay. An absolutely stunning place and surprisingly relaxing place to be!

Enjoy the rest of the summer and wishing you all plenty of sunshiny days!

Daow






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Friday, 15 May 2015

That "Less Toys" subject...

I came across a great article called “5 Reasons I’m Glad We’ve Chosen to Not Have Many Toys”, written by Moneysavingmum. However, after the reading, I somehow got a very ticklish feeling to how achievable that really is. What do you do with toys that are given as presents by others? I mean, kids don't just get toys from their parents, can parents really put so much control on how we want others to give presents to our children? I believe parents can have some influences on the choice of those presents bought and give by others (as often people would ask what the child would like and dislike), but how much influence really? Children don't stay  children, they grow, they have birthdays, have friends, they socialise, and their interests changed with time.

Leia's creative use of toilet paper roll, this time: a Hippo.
I totally agreed on those five reasons mentioned on the article. Personally it is also something I've been trying to practise with my kids at home. I used to take my girls to the "Ludothek" downtown instead of taking them to the toyshop. Ludothek is a place where you can pay a small sum of yearly membership fee and borrow toys. It works like a library. My kids loved it. One of the many "Family Rules" at home actually written: "Pay with Hugs and Kisses". Yes, my kids got plenty of that and never seem to have enough, although they also made jokes about me exchanges hugs and kisses with the cashier ladies at the supermarket for the glocceries bought. But of course they understood that mummy does not have to buy them a present or pay them the CHF 2.00 (as prior agreed) every time they did well at school. Having less toys saved me a lot of money, less time spent tidying up and therefore, a lot of nerve is also spared. The best part is, kids became very creative with the little things they have. That is true in our case as well. They're always inspired by small things and rarely run out of ideas of what to do and play. As for setting them on the path for Entrepreneurship, our family rule number 9th actually said to "Dream Big" but honestly speaking (writing), I feel it's a bit too early to judge and cage the kids based on their skills and interests at the age of just 6 and 9. They still got plenty of time to grow and learn new things. As said before, their interests do change with time, just like us adults.

So, if her opinion is good and I've been trying to do it prior reading the article anyway, what is the problem?

Leila kept herself entertained and occupied while waiting for food in a restaurant.
My problem is, I see loop holes in the article. What are we to do with presents? Or am I the only one spoiling my children by allowing them to have their social life, holding birthday parties (by no mean large parties) and taking them to visit family and friends, including the ones in the faraway lands? Ideology is one thing but reality is another. Kids are kids - and us grown ups just love to shower them with presents and gifts which are mostly toys anyway... 

Natalie putting her drawing skills to good cause, one of the designs she made on cards sold to earn cash for UNICEF. 
You see, I am of Thai origin so my family stretched out beyond Swiss’ boarder. My Thai side of family live far away from us and the thing is, each time they got to see the girls, it felt like it's Christmas all over again! Not that it made any different when it was us playing the visitors either. The last time we went to see our family in Thailand, we ended up having to choose between getting a new suitcase and face an additional charge for that extra weight at the airport or upsetting the girls and leave their presents behind. I think you would agree with the latter too, right? 

One of Leila's version of a Hippo when she was four.
Interestingly my oldest girl Natalie finally drop a comment; “Mummy, why is it that each time we have “your Thai friends”* here, they always come with their suitcases full of presents just for us?” Firstly, what she actually mean with “Thai friends” is basically how an eight-year-old describe all my Asian family members and very close friends who came to stay with us during their visit to Switzerland. In Thailand, the friend of your mum becomes an "aunt", the aunt of your mum, becomes your other "grandmother". Everyone is a family member.

Little ballerina had enough with the show time, now just want to draw. 
Well, anyway, that really got me into thinking…harder, if I should actually say something to my relatives and friends regarding their generosity. I mean, after all the last thing I want is that the girls started to make “expectation” and “comparing” the number of presents they are getting by whom and from whom, or having it programed in their heads that each time they see this and that person, there should be this and that amount of presents waiting for them. That would be so wrong. On the other hand, I can totally understand my family and close friends' good will and the giving culture. I supposed it would be different if they get to see us and the girls more often. Grandma and Aunts just want to make sure the girls won't forget them and are so happy to finally 'get to spoil them'.  

I absolutely don't know the way to make rejection without ending up being rude and unappreciated. The giver enjoys the giving and the receivers enjoy the new gifts and the loving attention. I think, most of us have been there.

So, the only solution (that seem to work) I find is to quietly explain to my girls and hopefully they understand why some family members chose to show their love and kindness in the form of material things, they simply live too far away to take you to the playground or sit around playing games with you every other day. The fact is, with young children's mind, if you don't often spend time with them and yet expect them to remember you, the kind of impression you want to leave for them may request more than just "a great time" together. Imagine asking my six-years-old this; "Do you remember Aunt "B", the one who came here and went with us to the zoo?", they will remember the trip to the zoo but not so much about aunt "B". But if I were to say, "Do you remember aunt "B", the one who joined us at the trip to the zoo and bought you that Hippo?", now, my six-years-old will be more likely to remember that aunt "B"! Not that she is materialistic though, it just the fact that, we do have more than one trips to the zoo last year and often enough that we won't alone, so if I were to be more specific as in "the one who give", somehow kids just remember them better!!!

Drinking made exciting. 
Locally (as in, friends and family within Switzerland), there are times when I get questions asked for the girls' birthday and Christimas'wish lists. Let me tell you, a straight forward answer to such simple question is really hard. Although I tried to stick to the girls' basic needs, I feel it only get harder when you have two girls and the younger one could benefit a lot from the older one. Plus, as mother, you tend to automatically get most of these things sorted for your kids before they ended up freezing their toes out before their next birthday finally arrive just so they could add winter boots on the wish list then. So, at the end of the day, I often leave it up to the girls to make their own choices or the grown up to get creative on the idea of giving. And even though they know that their toy cupboards are full, but because there are things that (all) their friends at schools seemed to already owned more than one, they too, would like to have some of those things. You know what, people may judge me for spoiling my kids but you know, they have all waited since their last birthdays and Christmas for all that.

That time when the girls got very much into the loom bands.
As time goes by, thankfully my experience as a mum get to grow with it. Now that the girls are older, the ideas of alternative gifts are plenty out there. The girls have learnt to appreciate the time that many adults don't have much these days to spend with them, be it a trip to the zoo, museum or a theatre, as long as it is fun, they're up for it. Now that they understood the value of money (in the way that kids do), they've learnt to handle it with extra care too. They understood now that they have the choice to either spend it all, safe it all or spilt it into two parts; on something from their wish lists which they didn't get over Christmas or birthday and feed the rest to their piggy banks at home. 


Bedtime Party

The girls hardly watch TV or no TV at all during the week and when do, they preferred to watch a decent film from a DVD (which often get split into two half-times). Thanks to this good habit, they are automatically less approached by all the latest toys heavily advertised on the TV. They absolutely love doing all kinds of art&craft and spending time making stories with their figure toys. When the weather is good, they get creative around the garden or joining their friends out and abouts. Each have their own hobbies, mostly musical or physical activities which they enjoy doing and I completely encouraged, even if it means more time for me spending behind the wheel.

The Self-made cards are the best and Natalie knew it.
Admittedly without any shame that, although we started well and made effort to have less toys around the house, at the end of the day, we somehow ended up with too many toys. The girls owned far too many Barbies they could play with. They owned far too many Lego collections, which have been built, played with and now ran out of space to store and collect. They owned far too many games to play with in a year, too many stuffed toys to put on their beds. The list could go on. They get very excited about every new thing for a while but always go back to the same old habits of drawing, making stuff out of toilet paper rolls and anything they could find around the house. Back to the backyard and play with wild flowers, sand and stones.

The day Leila got creative with the washable pens.
Well, so what do we do with all these toys? I took the idea of "Ludothek" home with me and put them away to be "borrowed" by the girls every now and then. They like that. And when they no longer play with certain toys, the girls and I preferred to just give them away. We have great memories when they were given to us so why don't we simply do the same and make other parent and child happy? Indeed we're more fortunate than many families to be given such opportunities to have that many toys. But through good parenting and enough explaination given to the child, it isn't hard to teach him/her the art of giving, sharing and letting go. 


Our Family Rules @ SweetHome
I am not suggesting that it is good to have a lot of toys. The idea of having less toys is great, but there are times when us parents also have to think pass the rules and don't try to control everything. It's like someone telling me; "Don't take your kids to Disneyland,save your money and take them camping in the forest instead, they will have more fun with real adventure" or "I don't let my daughter play with Barbie dolls because she may ended up turning into one". 

I mean, "really?" What if we actually preferred to offer them both trip to Disneyland and camping in the forest but just on the separate trip. Fantasy adventure and wild life adventure just don't seem to be the same thing for me. Also I played with Barbie dolls when I was a kid, yet I don't seem to look like one. 

So, at the end of the day, it isn't about the amount of toys, it's about the quality time you spend educating your child. You can't just fix a rule "Less Toys" in this house and be done with it. Just think of those pair of shoes, clothes, handbags, make ups, perfumes and stuff we bought for the kitchen that we own and don't get much used! Or am I the only mum with such habit? No one is perfect.

Monday, 20 April 2015

Our Easter and Mid-Term holiday break

Hope you all had a great Easter and Mid-Term break! 

Ours have been a joyful mix of over-indulgent of chocolate, eggs and plenty of great quality time spent with the kids.

After two crazy months of getting the business ready to launch and the Webshop up and running, I am glad that the school holiday is here again. Beside getting to take sometime off from work (flexible working hours, an advantage for being self-employed ;-), it also means, a short break for Taxi-mama job, less cooking and more sleep for me, yippie! 

I wrote about the wonderful performance of the Apassionata show we saw in Basel recently, “The Golden Trail”, and how my two girls have been wishing for a pony or two around the garden (of which my answer happened to be a “no”). Well, instead I promised them a chance to experience how it is like to look after these ponies by arranging something special for them at a small ponyhof down the village. Though I thought a visit to the “Kinderzoo” Knie at Rapperswil would also be great start for the holiday now that we got the sunshine back (it kind of disappeared from Switzerland for a while prior this).I love this zoo, so did the girls. They had great fun feeding the animals, watching the sea lions doing their little tricks and getting to ride the ponies. I especially like the new Thai restaurant here. The food was good and the staff were really friendly.


Our next stop was a much participated trip to the “Naturama” museum in Aarau. To celebrate Easter, Naturama have arranged special opportunities for kids to visit and hold newborn chicks and cute little bunnies for that weekend. Again, more fun with egg hunting and eating the chocolate eggs they won.


Finally the moment they’ve long been waiting for, days out in the ponyhof (a small pony farm). The girls get to spend two whole days helping out, feed, clean, train the ponies and ride them. It was, as according to my girls, an unforgettable experience that they would love to do again, and again. “Mummy, this is the best holiday ever, Thank you!” Ah… and it's not even yet half-way through the school break, you already melt mummy’s heart! Having heard sayings like this only make me feel like spoiling them even more!!! Control yourself mum...!


Well, the fun didn’t just stop there at the “Ponyhof” (and the girls already knew it). I have also been promising them for a day trip to Europa Park (Rust, Germany). Exactly around this same time last year that we were invited by the grandparents for a weekend in Europa Park. I was surprised by how close we actually are to this great amusement park (less than two hours drive), so, kids packed, food packed, Europa Park here we come.


As if all that wild rides and big splashes at Europa Park wasn’t enough, the following Sunday was happened to be Thai Songkran festival, or better known as the Water Festival for the European. The day is also a special day for my younger daughter Leila. It’s the first time she gets to take part for the Thai classical dance. We were also very lucky with the weather, Leila, Natalie and I were soaking wet by the end of that afternoon!


No school holidays would be completed without a visit to the grandparents for my girls. So, up direction Toggenburg mountains we drove. We later spent a relaxing afternoon with the grandparent strolling through a bit of the countryside. There were plenty of pretty little “Schneeglöckchen” or “snowbell” (Galanthus) flowers to be found everywhere along the way. Some patches of old snow were also still to be found, enough for the girls to have some good snow ball fight.




Strangely it also felt as though I came here to officially say goodbye to Winter and hello to Spring, especially after having to bring back the skis and ski boots which I’ve rented for the girls in a local sport store here. Ah snow, I won’t be missing you until next skiing season!


On the next day I decided to take the girls to join some friends and made a spontaneous visit to Mainau, Bodensee (Germany) before heading back home. Mainau is absolutely stunning at the moment especially with all the colorful spring flowers blooming. Besides the creative flower gardens, castle and more ponies, the huge playground with mini punting boats here definitely have left a very good impression on the girls to make them want to come back :-)




We spent the last couple of days lazing around the house and the garden before the school start and before mummy (me) gets back to her usual 16 hours a day of work. There are packages sitting around, waiting to be unpacked and sorted. Emails, letters, correspondences, contracts and bills, all have made their arrivals as well. The nice thing to know about these stuff is the fact that, they will always be there, waiting for me too.


I’m recharged, refreshed and the next holiday is planned and booked. Life is beautiful. I’m now ready for anything - Hello work!



Saturday, 4 April 2015

The (Green) Culture Shock.

The back of our garden in May 2014
We have a young visitor staying with us at the moment. She is from Singapore and she is full of curiousities about the life here. It is her very first time in Europe :-)

Where she comes from, her home is in the middle of the city, surrounded by tall buildings and big streets.

Here in Switzerland, where we live is in middle of a farm, surrounded by green fields.

I asked her about the journey and her first impression of Switzerland. She said, the train journey was straight forward, everyone on the train minded their own business, it was a nice and quiet ride. She enjoyed the calm atmostphier. People seemed friendly and extremely polite. She told me a lady actually asked if the seat next to her was free before taking the seat, and asked if this was normal here. I smiled and welcome her to Switzerland. 

As we were leaving the train station behind us, it didn’t take long before the view of the buildings were replaced by farms and wood hills. She asked me if we live is in a remote area and how far does it take from town to my house. I laughed and said, “actually it’s only about 15 minutes drive away”.  Soon we approach the village where I live with my family. Immediately she asked, “Where’s all the people gone?”…"Well, at work or at schools I supposed" was my answer. 

I said to my young visitor, considering the fact that she's from a very modern city like Singapore, this trip is either going to bore you or enlighten you and I hope she will experience the latter.

Our strawberry fields in June 2014
Now that we got home, she noticed during cooking that I separate the green waste from the regular ones. She asked me why so I explained to her about the compost. She doesn't know what a compost is so I took her to the garden and showed her our “green waste container”. More questions were then answered regarding the whole green container and composting and more surprises came after seeing boxes of glass bottles, coffee capsules, paper, cartons and various stuff being collected for the recycling in my cellars. She asked if this is compulsory in all Swiss home.

Hippo by Leila
Before I could answer, I asked her if the people in her country are not encouraged to do this and her answer was “actually yes, but most people just don’t do it, or maybe just not as much." I said, recycling isn’t compulsory but it is more of a habit here. In fact, I would even call it a “culture.” I personally don’t know anyone here who doesn’t recycle. My little girls also love collecting some of these stuff to make themselves toys and other creative things. They even argue over who got to keep the next plastic bottles or toilet paper rolls. Not only recycling is good for the environment, it saves us money when we produce less rubbish! We both laughed about this and I later explained to her about the cost of each bin bags regarding their sizes. 
Nespresso capsules bracelet by Natalie

She later asked if it’s to do with the fact that we live in the middle of the farm so we’re more aware of these things and for those who live around the city are less aware and therefore less concern. I said, “I don’t see why where you live should matter. Environment is all around us and not just what we see in the country side. It’s part of where we live, the air we breath in and in the food that we consume. I believe we are all aware of it but the question maybe how many of us are actually bothered to do something about it. Here I also see that it is very easy and convenience to recycling stuff. Perhaps, if conveniency is the key word to get people to do more recycling then maybe that is exactly what each community should be focusing on. She then jokingly said, “You mean, like, replacing all regular bins with recycling sorting bins?” I said, “That would be a good start”. She looked at me, amused and disbelief.  
Sorting bins in Geneva airport.
Well, it didn’t take long to change her mind about this conversation after I took her down town in Aarau. Also during her visits to Basel and Zurich, the so-called “sorting bins” seemed to be a common sight in various public places.

Sorting bins in Zurich HB
There were also countless of new things my little visitors get to discover later on like having to bring your own reusable shopping bags to the supermarket, being asked if she needs a bag for the items bought at department stores, that the (Post)bus in our area runs on schedules, (so please plan your trip and your traveling time accordingly), children actually come home at noon for lunch before returning to their afternoon classes. Also what she considered shocking is the fact that kindergarten and school kids are encouraged to be walking unaccompanied by adults on their ways to schools and back again, even on the rainy days. 

Toggenburg
After about four weeks of stay, I asked her again how she feels and if it’s all too boring for her here. She said; “Not at all! I love it! It’s really pretty here. Also even here in the country side, somehow everything is so well connected and that’s really nice. I like the dish washing machines, they’re cool. Do all rented apartments also have such machine fitted in the kitchens too? I really like the way of life here, people seemed happy with simple things and they value what they have. They also really mind their own business.” I laughed and said, “I remember you already said that when you just got here, so there’s nothing you would complain then?


“Umm…Yes..It’s very expensive here and I wished there were more food stalls… also I have the impression that although the people here seemed very polite, they don’t know how to queue...” 

We both just laugh and I actually agreed :-)

Happy Easter Monday!

- Daow
Easter 2015

Thursday, 26 March 2015

Apassionata, Basel

Another beautiful Sunday with spectecular performance, this time round not just the actors and dancers who were absolutely fantastic but also the amazingly well trained horses, ponies plus a donkey :-)

The girls left the show with a lot of OWW and AHH and plenty of after-the-show talkabout all the way home. Now all they want to know is when can they learn to ride and have their own ponies...Ah well...at this stage, I can only said to my girls that "dream big is a good thing sweeties" :-D

Here to share is also some adorable snapshots of the girls running around in the morning before we made out way to Basel. I guess they were making sure that enough action is undertake before having to sit straight 2 hours through the whole show!

Discovering little blooming flowers in the garden 
Natalie: Top and Leggings from Ziestha, cap from Geggamoja

Leila: Dress and matching Cap from Geggamoja

Leila: Dress from Geggamoja, leggings from Maxomorra

Apassionata, Basel